Imagine,
your life is a game.
From this line on, you're allowed to feel it.
Now. Not someday.
Does this sound familiar?
You've built something you can be proud of. You lead a company, a team, a family — often all at once.
You make decisions others rely on. You're the one who simply gets it done. You love that — the responsibility, the overview, the feeling of having everything under control.
Your mind is sharp. You know a lot — probably more than most people around you. You've read the books that are exactly about what's coming next.
And yet.
You're always reachable — and rarely for yourself. Recognized by everyone, except sometimes by yourself. Your life looks perfect from the outside.
You don't feel it as a crisis. More like a quiet pull you push away, because you supposedly have no reason to be dissatisfied. A longing without a name — growing bigger the more often you ignore it.
You know the concepts. You've underlined them, heard them, understood them. You just haven't put them into practice. Because knowledge alone changes nothing.
If this sounds familiar, keep reading. It's about to get concrete.
How it all began
Two women. One sofa.
An evening with no agenda.
Pascale spoke about a decision she'd just made — a new program, without knowing if it truly fit her vision. Only the fire behind it.
Carla listened. Didn't know the content. Didn't know the price. Didn't even know the name of the woman leading it.
Only the tingle. I want that too.
She booked in that very moment. The last spot available. No plan. No weighing of options. Just a Yes that needed no explanation.
And then came the question that changed everything: What if your entire life could work this way?
The Upgrade
Picture the airport check-in counter.
Your ticket: economy. And then, unannounced, the woman at the counter says: "We're upgrading you."
What happens to you in that moment? Nothing has changed outside yet. You're standing at the same counter, with the same suitcase. And yet: your body tingles. You stand differently. You walk differently. You want to tell the whole world.
That's no coincidence. An upgrade doesn't change your seat. It changes your state.
That's exactly what THE UPGRADE GAME® is — except you don't wait for coincidence. You learn to give yourself this feeling on your own. Any time. And the moment your state changes, what happens around you changes with it.
But what does that actually feel like, in real life?
This is what a call feels like
One song. Always the same,
to open.
We dance to it — so do you, wherever you are. Not to learn choreography. To let go of whatever the day loaded onto you. To get into motion. To feel your own energy. To arrive fully in yourself — in the room, in the here and now.
Then it goes quiet. You close your eyes. We speak — softly, slowly — and take you into a space that belongs only to you: your playing field. A small, guided journey. Not a lecture. An experience.
Afterward, you're not the same as before. Not because anything changed outside. Because you changed.
You step onto your playing field
Curious. Not because you have to — because you want to.
You look around. What's already here? What has been waiting for you? You start to discover — and the closer you look, the clearer they become: your wishes. Your dreams. The longings you've long pushed aside because there never seemed to be time for them.
Everything is allowed here. No lack. Only abundance.
You don't just feel it in your head. You feel it in your body: more awake. Clearer. More alive.
Three principles.
They carry the whole game.
You remember who you truly are. It's not about becoming someone else.
Here, there's only abundance. No lack. No homework.
Your mind goes on a world trip. Your heart takes the lead.
Your Props
What you bring onto your playing field
Your Future Self
On your playing field, you meet her: the woman already living this life. You speak with her. You ask her. She always has an answer — one you're simply allowed to follow.
The Dice
She hands them to you. With them, you find your focus — on what you truly, truly want. From focus comes an impulse. From the impulse, your next move.
The Upgrade Vacuum
And what you no longer want? That's exactly what it's for. An old image, someone else's expectation — gone. No overthinking. Simply: no longer part of your life.
Sounds like theory? It isn't.
This is not theory
This is lived.
From Control to Trust
She had learned to take responsibility for everything — in business, in the family. Constant vigilance, out of fear of no longer being needed if she let go. She learned to take responsibility only for herself. The paradox: the more control she released, the more people and love flowed toward her.
From Mind to Heart
She had analyzed every decision of her life. Spreadsheets. Pro-con lists. Risk assessments. Then she started asking her heart.
From Black to Visible
"I'm a head person. I can't do anything with feelings" — that's how she described herself. At first, she saw only black. Her answer back then: "It's okay. It doesn't make a difference." Then came the turning point — the playfulness, "Alice in Wonderland." At the private dinner in the Halfmoon Suite, she began speaking about her own vision for the first time — one that had been pushing to get out.
Today she lives it. Really. Publicly.
Pascale herself
London. Then Dubai. No perfect plan, no safety net — just a calling that grew louder than every argument against it. I went, with my husband, without waiting until everything "felt right."
Barely had London been lived, the next calling arrived. I went again.
That's the difference between a method and a practice: we don't play it to teach it. We play it because we can't do otherwise anymore.
And that's not all
Women who play,
say the same thing.
So many doors are opening right now, and so many impulses keep popping up.
There's so much clarity in me. I've truly found myself again.
THE UPGRADE GAME didn't change my life. It showed me who I truly am.
No Experiment
We play it ourselves.
To this day.
THE UPGRADE GAME® is not a course we developed once and then sold. We play it ourselves — every day, for years.
It's not a program with an end date. It's the way we live.
And now, for Sisterhood Deluxe®'s two-year anniversary, we're opening a new circle for it.
Proven.
Five places. The pure flash.
The Birthday Edition
Your door into the game.
Hosted live by Pascale & Carla — the two women you've just gotten to know. The game itself never ends. But your entry begins now.
- 12 weeks — THE UPGRADE GAME®, on your playing field, by your rules, at your pace. Curious. Pleasurable. Clear.
- Weekly live calls — your dice, every Monday
- 1:1 sessions with Pascale & Carla personally
- A channel that belongs only to us — reachable anytime
- A live event — always a surprise, as ever
- A circle, not a crowd
And if you already know THE UPGRADE GAME®: this edition holds dimensions that never existed before.
Already now, Inside The Game →"That tingle you're feeling right now? That's no coincidence. That's your body telling you: This is mine."
Your moment, to say Yes now.
I want in, for sureWith love,
Pascale & Carla
Four moments.
That begin already now.
Your decision alone already changes something
Even before the first session begins, something shifts. Just through your choice. More awake. More curious. More alive. More focused. This tingle, this anticipation — your mind will only grasp it later. Your body, your heart know it instantly. That's what our women tell us again and again: the moment of your Yes is already your first move.
And already now, your entrée begins — a space where you're allowed to look around, completely at ease. First impulses reach you. Small sequences, just for you, that you get to simply listen to. You don't have to do anything. Only receive.
The Opening Call
Your first concrete step. Live. Together. You step onto your playing field for the first time — and from that moment on, THE UPGRADE GAME® is activated. You enter a close exchange with your Future Self. Your dice become your tool for clarity — in your business, in your relationship, in your body. Crystal-clear focus instead of outside distraction. And of course: your Upgrade Vacuum, for everything you no longer want.
What changes for you over these 12 weeks doesn't stay a feeling. You make decisions faster. You lead more clearly. And everything you've been doing right by instinct so far now gets a system.
What makes this edition so special
Even if you already know the game — here, new dimensions, new frequencies await you. And: the Upgrade Casket. That tingle you knew as a child, when something special was handed to you — that's exactly what we're giving you again. A physical present that reaches you, personally. Not at the end. But in the middle of it. Sometime, within these 12 weeks. The timing remains our secret.
One single evening that changed everything
For my 50th birthday, I got to experience this frequency live once — the pure flash. Years later, people still talk about it, as if it were yesterday. A former colleague was there. Reserved, controlled, a woman who doesn't really dance. That evening, she danced. Stayed until sunrise. Did things her mind would never have allowed. To this day she says: "Carla, that changed my life."
Now imagine: for 12 weeks, exactly that happens.
Your playing field is waiting.
Yes. I want to play.
Your First Move.
You chose yourself.
The game begins already now.
We'll reach out to you, personally.
Thank you. Your spot is reserved.
We'll reach out to you. Personally.